FAQ

TANTRA MASSAGE

Q. What does Tantra mean?
A. Tantra means many things. It is a philosophy, a way of life. In order to practice Tantra, one needs to be present, in the moment.

Q. What does a session with you look like?
A. A warm welcome on arrival
2. You will learn a simple breathing technique
3. Full body massage (front and back)
4. Genital touch and/or anal touch
5. Integration time (100% relaxation time)
6. We have a little chat in the end
7. You get dressed

Q. How many times can I ejaculate during the session?
A. The session focus primarily on sensation, and ejaculation is not the goal. Ideally you will ejaculate only once, at the end of the session.

Q. But I suffer from premature ejaculation. What happens then?
A. i will teach you a technique to feel your body, and you will learn how to last longer. It will give you the confidence and skill to become a better lover!

Q. Are you nude during the session? Why not?
A. No, I am not nude. My  offerings are a sensorial experience. Your  eyes will be closed during the session. There is no need for me to be nude, as you will not rely on visual stimulation in order to get aroused.

Q. Can I touch you during the session? Why not? You are so hot…
A. No you can’t. My offerings  are one-way touch only.It will teach you how to receive touch.  Usually when interacting intimately with another, the tendency is to give in order to get. This is your opportunity to learn to receive touch without having to reciprocate.

Q. Do you do oral?  Why not? I can pay extra
A. No. Because I don’t want to.

Q. You are so hot. Do you offer full service? Why not?
A. Thanks. No I dont. I have no interest in having sex with my clients. Please do not ask.

Q. Do you do body slides? Why not?
A. No. i use my fingers and hands only. Because I don’t want to.

Q. Do you use oil for the massage?
A. Oil is only required for the genital and/or rosebud massage. No oil is used for full body massage

Q. What is lingam?
A. it is a Sanskrit word for penis. it means Wand of Light.

Q. What does yoni mean?
A. It is a Sanskrit word for womb, vulva. It literally means ‘sacred space’

Q. What does rosebud mean?
A. If you look at your anus with a mirror, you will notice that it resembles a rosebud

Q. What does sacred spot mean?
A. In tantric philosophy, it is the gateway to the second chakra. It can access deep emotions and pleasure. For men, the sacred spot access the prostate, also known as the male G-spot.
For females, sacred spot access the G-spot

Q. What do I need to do to prepare for a sacred spot session?
A. it is preferred to have an empty bowel if you are going to receive sacred spot/ prostate stimulation.

Q. How long have you been doing this for?
A. My tantric journey started in 2013

Q. It is my first time. What do I need to do to prepare for the session with you?
A. All you need to do is to come in with an open mind.

Q. Can I shower at your premises?
A. location changes every time, therefore showers are not always available. Please enquire.
After the session I offer wet wipes, so you can remove any excess oil

Q. I am worried about STI. Do you use gloves during your sessions?
A. Yes, I wear gloves when touching  genitals and anus.

Q. Why do you wear gloves? I am a healthy person and gloves take away the sensitivity.
A. I wear gloves for health reasons. My health and yours. Did you know that some sensual massage workers have contracted herpes from clients because they weren’t using any barrier when touching genitals? For the record, I don’t have herpes, and I intend to keep it this way!

Q. Ohhhh, but I don’t like gloves. Can I pay you extra and you touch me without gloves?
A. Absolutely not. Gloves are non-negotiable

Q. What are your rates?
A. Click here for current rates

Sexual Intimacy & Tantra Coaching FAQ

Q. I am interested in getting some sex coaching , I am having issues around erectile dysfunction and arousal , what would usually be involved to solve these issues and is something that can be solved ?
A. There are lots of factors to take in consideration regarding your erectile difficulties and arousal (i.e. age, lifestyle, stress levels, medication, etc).
Under normal circumstances it can be improved greatly with simple exercises that include breath, sound, movement and touch.
You are welcome to give me a ring and I can give you more information

Q. What does Premature Ejaculation session involve?
A. Premature Ejaculation has many causes, but mainly performance anxiety.
I teach techniques involving breath, sound, movement and touch . Depending on how quickly you embody these techniques, then we proceed to the massage table, where your genitals are stimulated, and you get to practice ejaculatory control and awareness.
You are welcome to ring me if you would like more information.